O, Perverse Generation!

by Bishop [now Archbishop] Chrysostomos

Clergymen, educators, military leaders, and every segment of our society have sounded an alarm. We are creating a generation of self-centered, ego-bound know-nothings who are not only unable to identify on a map where they live, to define where they stand in history, or to enumerate the basic tenets of their culture; but who, indeed, do not care that they are ignorant! As a teenager in one of New York's most prestigious "prep" schools recently told a television interviewer, "I can identify with 'Joe Blow,' who doesn't know what I do. The only reason that I'm in school and learning what I'm learning is so that I can have a better life than 'Joe Blow'—money and stuff. You know." In other words, even those among the young who seek education do so for the purpose of fulfilling selfish, materialistic goals.

In generations past, when the Church was not a part of the materialistic world itself, but was respected for its resistance to society's selfish and materialistic goals, monasticism and vocations dedicated to the fulfillment of our fellow man flourished. One was respected for self-sacrifice. Today, such vocations have largely become the refuge of social misfits. Those who would have sacrificed themselves in the past for a life of dedication to God and their fellow man are now on Wall Street, reaping the benefits of a life squandered in wealth and worldly pleasure. Monasteries and convents cry for healthy aspirants. Hospitals and charitable foundations worldwide have nearly given up in their quest for nurses and physicians who will work without remuneration merely for the betterment of society.

And let us not ask for those youths who will die for their country and for their freedoms and beliefs. The line will be short, and the voices of those putting forth their oaths of loyalty will be drowned out by the jeers and laughs of the vast majority of their peers.

The few who hear the call to lives of dedication today, whether as monastics or social workers, too often lack the strength of character that sustained their predecessors. In the past the lust for the world translated into a desire for money or for the fulfillment of the coarser pleasures. This lust could be easily countered by recourse to a moral choice: the choice between a fulfilling life in making the world better and a hellish life of self-destruction wasted on the proverbial "wine, women, and song." The moral weight of the choice itself encouraged commitment to higher goals.

Now young novices or budding humanitarians face no moral dilemmas. Life has been reduced to inanities. More often than not, we have found that novices are tempted away from the monastic life not by the classical world of lust, but by the vapid lure of Disneyland, pizza, Burger King, video games, television, movies (which are increasingly aimed at the intellectual and moral "zeros" of this world), and romantic visions of marital bliss and financial security.

There is no moral choice here. There is no vivid contrast between a life of positive and negative intensity. The choice here is between meaning and non-meaning. Thus there is no real contrast, since what is meaningless has no form—no more form than a life frittered away in Disneyland and punctuated by respites in the land of Oz and forays into the fracases of Fantasyland, or on a belly perpetually filled with "Crunchy Critters" or the latest double-decker, triple-cheese, soya-filled beef burger delight in a shiny plastic case sporting a depiction of Mickey Mouse's third cousin—the only approximation of art in this whole stomach-turning "package deal"—, watered down by a tooth-rotting array of artificially flavored brews that defy both chemical analysis and the test of taste. Lacking the contrast between real alternatives in a real choice, today's youth do not have the strength of commitment to a good that sustains a life of selfless dedication.

And it is not our youth alone who stain this perverse age of ours. After all, they learned their ways from the values—or "unvalues"—which we others allowed to take over society. They learned from a society which replaced manners with boorish behavior. Indeed, who today teaches his children what we were taught: not to stare; to put the comfort of guests before our own; not to gossip; not to boast; not to show off our possessions; not to embarrass or denigrate others; to exercise meekness and kindness; and so on? And if our youth have not been taught these things, is it any wonder that they have no concept of selflessness or of dedication to others and to the betterment of mankind?

I often remark that those in positions of authority and respect, today, have not even rudimentary manners. They are increasingly boorish, impolite, and abusive of their powers. Write a letter to someone of importance. More than half of the time you will not receive a response. Our leaders are no longer even endowed with the simple manners of school children, who at least know that they should answer their mail! Authorities—and even those in the Church—, who used to be "above" gossip and cheap rumor, now often specialize in collecting "information" on their underlings. They often set aside the responsibilities of independent judgment for the filth and slander of the rabble. And more often than not, they let political, rather than moral, considerations influence what little judgment they do exercise. Again, is it any wonder that our youth are where they are?

Just as the malaise in today's world has been caused by a departure from high values taught by simple and uncomplex customs, so we can return to a healthy world built on those values by restoring the same simple customs. We can teach our children to respect their elders; to put others before themselves; to show concern for others through basic manners (beginning with "please" and "thank you"); to understand that the quality of the world is determined by the quality of the people in it; and to respect, if not embrace, the unselfish goals of those who live more for others than for themselves. Even the vapid pleasures which they enjoy today, our youth must understand, depend on the skills and abilities of those who have acquired knowledge in the only possible context: one which values knowledge for its own sake. A society which learns in order to get things is wholly unproductive. And whatever it wishes to get by such learning, it will be unable to produce. Thus it will become a rather sad satire on itself.

Parents! Look again at this generation and resolve to see that its errors are not repeated. Dedicate yourselves to supporting those things in society which lead to a sense of social responsibility. Teach your children the value of self-deprivation, the highness of humility, and the richness of a life lived with necessities rather than abundance. Otherwise, you will destroy your children and their future. You will produce moral and intellectual cripples who cannot read, who cannot therefore know the course of human history and the human condition, and who will thus fall to a witless existence that is really no existence at all. The time is ripe and the need is more than abundantly apparent.

From Orthodox Tradition, Vol. 6, No. 4, 1989, p. 2.